Friday 13 February 2009

How do I negotiate effectively?




Negotiation Phrases * Professionally Speaking * ATi02
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Note created May 12, 2007 • Last edited May 12, 2007 by karolussher@gmail.com
5/12/07

Phrases to be used in negotiations






TYPE OF PHRASE
- Classified according to speech acts
EXAMPLES OF PHRASES FOR EACH TYPE
- You may look out for and more
USING THE PHRASES IN THE VARIOUS STAGES OF GRAHAM'S MODEL
ADDING A POINT OR TWO
(Use these phrases when you wish to drive your arguments through.)
* Right. And I'd like to add that I haven't seen any such cases lately.
* There are other things/issues/considerations; for example the price...
* If we look at this from another angle (another perspective)...
* There are other points to bear in mind. Firstly, we have...
* Let me elaborate this further... (More formal)
* Persuasion
* Concessions and Agreement
ASKING FOR CLARIFICATION OR FURTHER INFORMATION
(Useful phrase for all, but very valuable for the chairperson.)
* Sorry I don't follow you completely; would you mind explaining this...
* Could you be (a bit) more precise?
* Could you expand on that?
* Sounds quite interesting to me - could you clarify this?
* Okay, so what did you mean exactly?
* Could you clarify the first point please? I don't understand it completely.
(All stages)
ASKING FOR CONFIRMATION * Basically, what you are saying is that...., right?
* Could you please check this: you want to spend half the amount on...
* Am I correct in assuming that the terms of delivery are... (Formal)
* Could you send us confirmation by email, by Wednesday?
* Concessions and Agreement
* Persuasion
AVOIDING ANSWERING * I'm afraid I don't have the exact numbers here.
* Sorry I can't discuss that at the moment.
* In our case, that's confidential information. I'm sorry
* I'm not quite sure. I'll see if I can get the data for you next week
* Come on, Mary. You should know we can't give you that information
* Persuasion
ASKING FOR REPETITION * I didn't quite catch that. What did you say?
* Could you repeat that last point, please?
Sorry, what was the figure?
* Could you go over that again, please? Sorry, could you repeat that?
(All stages)
CORRECTING MISUNDERSTANDING * Sorry, you got me wrong. It's the third door on the left
* That isn't quite what I said; you see all the items we sent are...
* I'm afraid there seems to be a slight misunderstanding...
* We seem to be talking at cross purposes
* With all due respect (name), the information is wrong (Formal)
(All stages)
EXPRESSING NEUTRAL DISAGREEMENT
* Do you really think so?
* I can't say I share your view on this...
* I feel I must disagree...
* Well, take you point, yet I can't help feeling that...
* I wouldn't say that, really.
* I respect your opinion, of course, but on the other hand.. (More formal)
* I wouldn't say that.
* Persuasion
* Concessions and Agreement
EXPRESSING PARTIAL AGREEMENT * Well, I agree with you on the whole, but then again it...
* I agree in principle that all of us .... ; however, ...
* I find it difficult to agree with you...
* Well, to a certain extent I agree with you, but...
* You definitely have a point there, but..
* I take you point. However, it looks to me that..
* Persuasion
* Concessions and Agreement
MAKING PROPOSALS

Use these phrases in FORMAL negotiations only. Avoid 'suggestion' in that case.


* I propose that... (Used in more formal situations.)
* I'd like to propose that...
* I hope you all agree that...
* Well, don't you think we should...?
* How about if we do this by changing...?
* I strongly recommend that...
* Persuasion
* Concessions and Agreement
PLAYING DOWN A POINT * Yes, I take your point, but let's think of this...
* OK, but that's a just minor issue.
* Perhaps, but this is, after all, not a disadvantage if you..
* Persuasion
* Concessions and Agreement
PLAYING FOR TIME * That's a very interesting question, I must say...
* I'm glad you asked that question, too
* I'm afraid I'm in no position to comment on that... (Formal)
* You have certainly raised an important point there...
(More formal)
* Persuasion
* Concessions and Agreement
REPHRASING A POINT * Perhaps I haven't made myself clear
* Seems I need to recap this for you (name)...
* Let me just put it in another way...
* To be more specific, I think the data... (More formal)
* Allow me to rephrase that....(Formal)
(All stages)
REASSURING THE COMMUNICATION PARTNER * You needn't worry about his, really. We are going to fix all the details later
* Please rest assured there's no danger at all... (Formal)
* You will certainly find this perspective more rewarding
* We do understand your concern, it's not always easy to....
* Persuasion
* Concessions and Agreement
SUGGESTING
Please compare 'PROPOSALS' above!'
* So why don't we look at ways of increasing your net sales?
* How about cutting the volume?
* Your could always sell the the software licenses, couldn't you?
* What about if we re-design the project?
* Here's another way to go: Perhaps we could look at other suppliers?
* What if we changed on to the payment terms? Are you willing to consider....?
* Persuasion
* Concessions and Agreement

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